A small victory

In our new found world, today was a day to celebrate.  We have all been anxious to start chemo as soon as possible because of the speed rate of the tumor. First thing this morning, they did another x-ray of his lungs and decide that even though there was not really improvement, we would proceed with the chemo anyway because he did not have pneumonia. This was a step in the right direction.

The pain from his back has significantly decreased and is mostly very sore from such an extensive surgery. It was most evident today because he was able to pull himself into a seated position much more easily, and he even got out of bed a few times and took a few steps. Even though he was only able to walk 5 feet with support, it was a major improvement. In addition, his mood has returned to normal, and his agitation is less. We are celebrating.

We waited all day for the chemo to be prepared. Apparently, there are over 50 types of chemo, and hundreds of derivatives and mixtures. As it got closer to administering it, he was a little more anxious. His first and foremost concern is losing his hair. We talked about getting a wig if it made him more comfortable, and he insisted that I take photos of each side of his head so we could find a wig with the exact same color and texture as his. He told me he's like his hair dresser to cut it in the exact same style as now. He even joked that he'd never have bed head again. I was pinching myself that his spirit was back.

He also asked me a lot of questions regarding how this happened. He asked if it was something he did or didn't do and was it his fault. I am so thankful he is asking these things so we can help him process all of this. I, of course, assured him it was nothing he could have done and his nurse gave him a lesson on cells. He loved his science lesson and felt much better.

The nursing staff is amazing with him and prepares him for each little step along the way. He did have a pretty good stalking technique to receiving his first dose. About 30 minutes before we began, he asked if we could play monopoly. First time he asked to do something the entire time we've been here. I am sure he calculated the fact that monopoly is by far the longest game ever. It wasn't a coincidence I am sure.

Around 6 pm, he received the first dose. It dropped in for about 3 hours. They do everything they can to manage the side effects. So far so good.

We are on our way!!!